Lost Love Candidate? Well Are You?
“How to win love back?”, Boy! I hear that question all the time. It seems like so many of have lost love and are just so sick about it and do practically anything to get back with that ex. If this sounds like you than you’ll be happy to learn that no matter how much time has gone by, or what the reasons for the breakup were, there is always a chance that you can get back with your ex. Since I don’t know you, you know you, it’s up to you to take charge and answer some questions.
First off, why did the two of you break up? No, it’s not because she’s a lousy cook or you left the seat up. Those aren’t the reasons those are just the things you both choose to fight over to relieve some pent up frustration and anger. What were the real reasons? Most of the time it’s about taking each other for granted. This happens a lot and we are all guilty of it to one degree or another. I’ve seen it happen all the time.
Sometimes I can’t believe the way two people who say they’re in love will talk to each other. Unbelievably! And they act surprised when things fall apart! If you talk to the guy at the local coffee shop with more respect than you did with your ex, why would you be surprised things didn’t work out. I don’t care you’re a woman or a man the truth is that we all want basically the same thing. And no, it’s not what you’re thinking. It’s respect.
Everyone wants to feel like they are loved, respected and understood. Especially by the one person in their life who is supposed to love them more than anyone else, their partner. If you and didn’t make your ex feel like they were the number one person in your life, you have to ask yourself why not? Why would you not want to make someone who you love feel like they are the only person on the planet that matters? Are you afraid? Do you think that if you let them see how much you care than they’ll leave you or take you for granted? If so, get over it. True, that might happen but if it does then the person you were with doesn’t sound like much of a prize.
If you’re with someone who is worth loving they will respond to you in the same way (good or bad) that you treat them. Keep that in mind before you try to reconnect with your ex. This one single thing can help you learn how to win love back. Just by figuring things out and than letting your ex see that you’ve grown, can go such a long way to getting them back. And, the cool thing is that no matter what happens with the two of you, you will have grown as a person and that will make every aspect of your life better