Liars, Cheaters-Surviving Infidelity My Personal Story

Liars, Cheaters Pants on Fire

Liars, Cheaters! That’s what they are. I never thought my husband would become part of the club- Married men who cheat- Liars, Cheaters. Then again what else is new? It’s popular belief that all men cheat so that’s the club I’m talking about. My house band acts as the devout Christian man, he would have people believe he is because of his involvement with the church.

Do you know some one who goes to church every Sunday,someone who is always present at every free church function? Heck, this Liar and Cheater serves as an Usher but, only touches the Bible to carry it to church. Never reads it during the week. Well, the good book lets us know some people hide behind church. Why else would judgement begin there first? Even the Devil goes to church so cut me some slack.

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When people are around he puts on quite the show. He does it so well that, Rhianna even wrote him a song. “Take A Bow”. You see during this act, Mr. Jekyll surfaces as he puts on a show and when all is said and done and the curtains are drawn, his true self, Mr Hyde is what we, the unfortunate few behind closed doors have to deal with. Hence part of the heading Liars, Cheaters. When this man is not lying about a marital affair he’s lying about not having money.

Liars, Cheaters In Disguise

I don’t like it when people always remark, “I didn’t know he was like that”. Sure they don’t know he is like that, they don’t live with him but, I do, the kids do! It”s like they doubt you, when you say that he is a Liar and a Cheater. And they give that look. Well, he has mastered the art of deceiving and deceit so brilliantly, that it becomes second nature.

So, one day, maybe his conscience (if he has one,) was bothering him. I don’t know what angle this Liar was playing, whether he was trying to attack my mental state. But out of the blue, he tells me he committed infidelity-he had a fling with some tenant, a single parent he rented for. She has moved but one day, he saw her on the train. They had to have exchanged numbers because she called his cell and the Dotard shoves the phone in my face so, I can see her number while he whispers her name. Common on now, who does that? No shame! Don’t know if he expected me to go crazy or get irate like some women do. But I didn’t. He should know by now that he can’t break me.

He does not know am as sane as they come and will stay that way because I am a strong person. I don’t let things like that bother me . Those vows for better or for worse I always revisit because those two words better and worse tells me that marriage is not perfect( though it can be if both are working to make it that way; ) Still, that’s not an excuse for infidelity.

This Liar and Cheater, one day ask me to delete a pic of his co worker which was on his cell phone. It was a pic of her private parts. So, while I was trying to get rid of the pic; I asked, why would you give your phone number to young girls? He response was one of his friends gave her the number. So I was like why didn’t you have them delete the pic then? He took the phone back. Such a Pathological liar!

One day we had a quarrel and he says, to me how his job has quality girls. Girls that look better than I do. I should have shut him up by mentioning the pic but for some reason the pic did not come to mind. I
recently learnt of an online site where women who have been cheated on can submit post pics of those Hoes up there for the world to see but I have no pics, no name so she’s lucky. Besides I would not want to take that route.

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Liars, Cheaters-Surviving Infidelity What I Did

The last thing you want to do is get depressed or go crazy because of these Liars, Cheaters. I have kids who did not asked to be born further more be part of this emotional affair so I went to college. During the day, I stayed home with them because at the time there was no such thing as Universal Pre. K and with no money for babysitters well, I had to take care of them. I also began writing. You need to make yourself busy. Keep the mind busy so it does not have to just focus on this emotional infidelity For me this was not the end of the world. Some of these Liars, Cheaters can be so demanding of your time. Now, I had a chance to care for myself and I did just that. I kept myself well groomed, sought divine intervention daily, and learned new skills. When you have nothing going for you and you are hit with an emotional affair you are done for. Why? all your focus will be on these Liars and Cheaters’ actions. So , keep yourself up and educate yourself more even if your are not in this situation.

After being married to one of these Liars and Cheaters for 25 years, I know most of his tricks and how he operates especially, when his sexual needs are not met he goes into a frenzy and makes all these wild animal sounds trying to jerk off with Dickwad ready for the kill. He always stands up like he is ready to shoot at anything in his path. Lately, this has not been happening.Someone is meeting that need and it is not me. Because I’ll be damned if I have to spend the rest of my days wondering how many STDs I am playing host to .

Let the Liar enjoy his cheating days. I don’t want any venereal disease. When he decide to stop it will be too late because by then, Dickwad will look like this. With all these sores, no female will ever want to set sights on this horrible looking disease infested part of a Cheater. He will be marked and even the low down dirty HOes will run like speedy Gonzalez. Beware of Liars, Cheaters

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