Relationships and Breakups

Anyone here with a SUCCESSFUL long distance relationship experience they can share?

Posted on July 26, 2010 by admin

Anyone here with a SUCCESSFUL long distance relationship experience they can share?

Like problems you encountered along the way, breakup makeups, and how you overcame and let the relationship blossom till today….

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I am trying to make a song, any titles?

Posted on July 24, 2010 by admin

I need a song title by the guidelines of Breakups, Makeups, and relationships. I was thinking of Love is sick for a title. I need ALOT of good titles before February 3 -7. Thank you!! (P.S. Breakups make for the best sound titles)

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How To Get Lover Back – Honesty Prevails

Posted on July 22, 2010 by admin

Before you learn how to get lover back, it’s important that you stop yourself for a minute and ask yourself why you want them back.” I know, you’ll say it’s because you still love them, and you might, but are you sure that really is the main reason? Look, I’m not trying to be rude here, but it’s really easy to feel our life has been shaken off it’s foundations after a breakup and we find ourselves scrambling to get back to something that seems normal. This could be a big reason to want them back, but it’s not a good one.

You really need to not only be completely honest about the reasons you want them back, you also need to be totally honest when it comes time to evaluate if the relationship was even healthy enough to continue with. So the question should be (at this point) not about how to get them back but whether or not you should get back with them.

If there was any type of abuse at all…physical, sexual, verbal, etc. than you absolutely shouldn’t get back with them even if they promise they’ll change (I mean, you’ve no doubt heard those promises before, and were they ever kept?). If your ex has been in therapy for some time and has shown a commitment to changing than maybe you could consider reconciling with them but you must know that the two of you had a certain dynamic when you were together and it’s very likely that you’ll fall back into that pattern if you get together again, therapy or not.

If, after careful consideration, you decide that the relationship is worth giving another shot, here are some things that will show you how to get lover back:

1. First of all, try to contact your ex to see if they are even receptive to the idea. This part can be tricky. You have to be very casual, don’t let them know yet that you want to get back with them. Keep it easy and light and just suggest meeting to ‘catch up’ as friends. If they say no, than more than likely you have your answer. If they don’t even want to get together for coffee as friends, it’s unlikely that they’ll want to get back with you.If they say yes, keep the ‘date’ very casual. Just talk to each other. Be fun loving and sincere, you know, the way you were when the two of you first met. Things will probably progress from there if your ex is interested in getting back with you too.
2. If your ex shows no interest of reconciling with you you need to walk away with your head held high. Nothing ventured nothing gained, but it’s important to know when to call it a day. Don’t get angry, threaten, swear, etc. Just wish them a good life (no matter how much you may choke on those words) and say goodbye. At least that way you won’t feel like a fool every time you remember the meeting.

These are simple things you can do to find out if your ex is receptive to a reconciliation, and if not you can move on knowing that you tried. Please take the time, first, though to make sure that you really should learn how to get lover back, not all relationships should be saved.

What is this song that was on MTV's Hookups makeups and breakups?

Posted on July 20, 2010 by admin

It had the words 5 "get no gonna get me" its all mixed up but i dont know what the lyrics were. It was recently on the episode with Nick jonas taylor lautner jaty perry russal brand (whatever) justin timberlake, tiger woods and more.

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Would you want to follow your parents about love marriage or arrange marriage?

Posted on July 20, 2010 by admin

Do you think that people should follow their parents and get arranged marriage to their cousins or they should be allowed to choose and get married to someone that would fit fine with their family as a love marriage? PLEASE TELL ME!

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How can one avoid being dumped like this?

Posted on July 20, 2010 by admin

I’m trying to gain some insight into the following situation.
Most marriages are based on love and trust. But what if one’s partner loses interest in remaining married and proceeds in a cold and calculating fashion to dissolve the marriage?

I got a call from my best friend. He had a sad tale to tell. He was dumbfounded as to the reason but his wife of 12 years had returned from hospital one day and broken the bad news to him:"I’m leaving you today". The words were like a dagger in his side. "Why?", he asked in total shock and disbelief. "I don’t love you anymore", she told him. Now before u go thinking this is an extract from a Mills and Boone novel, let me assure you this was a real life event. There were 2 children involved and my friends were both under 35 yrs old. All the years I had visited that family I had never seen the cracks forming, never suspected anything was amiss. Surprisingly, I subsequently discovered a few more cases of women, ‘falling out of love’ and then secretly preparing for the opportune moment to drop the bombshell. The husbands had no inkling of their spouses duplicity. Meanwhile the wives visited lawyers in secret for advice on how to leave the marriage with the maximum advantage to themselves! In the case I mentioned the estranged wife left home and hooked up with another man soon after.

The questions I am asking is why does a woman behave in this fashion and how does a man see it coming? Are you aware of a similar case as the one outlined?

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How To Get Over Someone Who Dumped You

Posted on July 20, 2010 by admin

Do you want to know how to get over someone who just broke up with you? We all know that break ups are difficult, how you handle it is completely up to you.

You could go to the extreme and you can cry, scream, be totally miserable and vow to hate the opposite sex for the rest of your life or you can choose to get on with your life after a brief mourning period.

Choosing to get on with your life means making and sticking to a plan to learn what it takes to be single again. It may take some time but tell yourself you have the strength to get through this and you will.

So take a day to cry, scream and feel miserable. You need this to move on to the next step. Just make sure that you don’t go over the twenty-four hours you give yourself. No one is worth more than that amount of time. Once things start to get under control, you may even feel like you are better without them.

When your twenty-four hours are up, get up the next morning and start clearing away any and all of the things that will remind you of the other person. Pictures, mementos, cards, jewelry, whatever it is, get rid of it. Put it in storage or if things were really bad just throw it in the trash bin. Let the garbage man handle how to get over someone.

Clearing things away may not take all day so in the afternoon, call a friend and get out of the house. Meet for coffee or go have lunch. Go buy yourself a new pair of shoes. Just do something to make yourself feel better.

What you don’t want to do is have any contact with the one who broke up with you. Don’t call them or text them or message them on Face book. Adopt a no-contact policy, none, zip, zilch, Nada. It won’t do you any good and will only succeed in keeping you mired in self-doubt and misery. Let it go.

There are so many other things you can do to keep your mind off of how bad you feel. Go to the library and check out a good book to lose yourself in. Join an exercise class and get in shape. Check out the local community college and sign up to take a class. Go to a local nursing home and volunteer your time. Go eat some ice cream. Concentrate on you for a while. Soon you will be feeling happy again and one day you will realize that you have moved on.

When that realization hits home you can smile at yourself and be optimistic about your future. Then and only then should you consider dating and getting back into another relationship. Don’t jump from one bad relationship to another. A new relationship probably won’t work if you get into one too soon and you will then have to learn how to get over someone else along with the first one.

Breakups to makeups to breakups to makeups?

Posted on July 20, 2010 by admin

My married lover has broke it of many times. This last time he broke it off and he act like he wanted me to respond. He asked me what I was thinking about etc. We had sex and he left hugging me. I ask him why he was hugging me. I don’t know maybe he wanted me to cry and ask him to leave his wife. Guys suggestions please?!

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what is the difference between Arranged marriage and love marriage ?

Posted on July 19, 2010 by admin

why Arranged marriage last longer than love marriage ?Divorce rate is increasing everywhere . what is the main reason ?

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Relationship Help

Posted on July 19, 2010 by admin

How To Deal With A Break Up – Simple Quick Tips

If you’re still smarting from a painful breakup, take heart, there is help on how to deal with a break up. Following a few simple tips that can help you move through the healing process much more quickly and without doing anything that you’ll regret once the dust settles.

Step 1.The first thing you need to do is to stop and think. Give yourself a week or two and just go easy on yourself. Don’t worry too much if your bathroom needs to be cleaned or if your hair needs to be cut, just take things slow and allow yourself to process everything that has happened. Try to continue to do things that will create problems in the future if they’re not taken care of, such as going to work or paying your bills on time, but anything that won’t create a problem if you ignore it for a little while… ignore it. Just make sure that this period of ‘mourning’ is a limited time offer. Only allow yourself a week or two and then kick yourself (or have a friend do it) in the behind and get going. No one is saying that after a few weeks you should be over it, you won’t be, but a few weeks is enough time to process everything and then it’s time to get going and start living your life to the fullest again while you continue to heal.
Step 2. Make sure that you still take care of you. Now that you’ve had some down time, it’s time to rejoin the human race. Make sure that even though you still feel down that you take the time to eat properly and get enough exercise and sleep. This is not the time to start drinking or sleeping around. Those things may offer a little short term relief but remember at the beginning of the article I said that I’d help you move on with your dignity intact, doing either of these things won’t help your dignity at all, so don’t do them.
Step 3. Accept the fact, that the relationship is over and avoid your ex at all costs. If the two of you move in the same social circles and you see him or her when you’re out with friends, don’t talk to them. You don’t have to be rude, a nod will be OK, but don’t try to engage them in conversation. This is a vulnerable time for you and if you have had a drink or two you can really say or do something that you’ll regret. Just steer clear until you’re stronger.
Step 4. Keep in mind, that you will have to just give it time. The amount of time it takes for you to move on to the point where you’re happy, smiling and looking forward to the future will depend on many factors, every one is different. Just hang in there until you reach that point and even though it may seem impossible now remember that you will reach that point one day. These tips will help you learn how to deal with a break up so your dignity isn’t compromised and you won’t have a lot of baggage to carry into the next relationship.

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